Humiliating term for a findom sub.
One who sometimes doms and sometimes subs in a BDSM scene.
An agreed-upon word or phrase to stop the activity, scene or session immediately. “___ word”.
Adult who acts like a baby, most often for comfort reasons.
Philosophy governing BDSM activities and behaviors to ensure all the participants know the risks involved in the activity in which they're about to engage.
One who likes or becomes sexually gratified by their own pain or humiliation.
Piece of fabric that can be secured around the head and placed over the eyes to block sight.
Four letter acronym created by the Taillors to be discussed before all BDSM scenes.
Space/location where BDSM play happens.
Dominant who practices rope bondage.
adjective, often verbal, we look for in consenting partners; “_____ yes”.
The physical or emotional exhaustion after a scene. “Sub ____” is a common term, although both dommes and subs may experience.
Someone with a strong focus on the pursuit of pleasure
Device used for impact play, typically consisting of several tails attached to a rigid handle. Most commonly seen in leather, the tails may be made from a number of materials, including rubber and horsehair.
Femme-identifying individual who behaves in a dominant manner.
Another term for WAM (Wet and messy fetish).
Sexual activity in which a woman wears a strap-on dildo and penetrates a man's anus.
Activity to bring sexual pleasure to dacryphiliacs.